Rev. Fr. Andrew Toye, University Chaplain of Augustine University, Ilara-Epe, Lagos, has described humility and meekness as “the foundation virtues of every Christian life.” He made this assertion while delivering his homily at the Closing Mass of the 2025 Catholic Women Organisation of Nigeria, Lagos Archdiocese (CWONLA) Assembly, held recently at Augustine University, Ilara-Epe. Fr. Toye explained that meekness and humility, though closely related, are distinct.
He described meekness as “the balance between extremes,” noting that it does not mean passivity or outbursts at the slightest provocation but controlled passion—anger only for the right reason, at the right time, and for the right purpose. “Unchecked anger is never justifiable,” he warned, stressing that it has the power to destroy homes, relationships, and souls. Using Christ as the model of meekness, he recalled how Jesus endured insults and humiliation without retaliating, teaching that “true strength lies not in revenge but in restraint.”
He contrasted this with humility, rooted in the very essence of humanity. Drawing from the Greek origin of the word humus—the earth—Fr. Toye explained that to be human is to be humble, while pride distorts human nature and blinds us to God’s grace. Quoting St. Augustine, he emphasised that humility stands above all other virtues, calling it “first, second, and third” in Christian life. “To be humble is to have the courage to say ‘I am sorry,’ to accept correction without resentment, and to respond to others with gentleness as true children of God,” he said.
The priest further highlighted the social and economic implications of these virtues, urging Christians to see people with the eyes of God, free of discrimination, and to share their wealth with the poor. “True honour is not measured by social status or wealth but by service and love,” he said. Fr. Toye concluded by urging Christians, especially women of faith, to model leadership through humility and self-restraint, letting their works speak louder than ambition. “Like Christ, who chose the path of meekness, let us embrace humility, patience, and wisdom, so that our witness may inspire others and glorify God,” he charged.
