Communicating with gentleness indicates showing respect and understanding with whoever you are interfacing with. People tend to listen to others that communicate with sense of reasoning, gentleness, and love. We are far more likely to succeed if we communicate with gentleness and readiness to listen. BETTY AMUKPO interrogates some teens on gentle communication. They respond thus:
‘Maintaining gentleness fosters understanding and harmony in relationships’
Yes, communicating with gentleness is important. The Bible encourages this in Proverbs 15:1: “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Additionally, Ephesians 4:15 teaches us to “speak the truth in love,” highlighting the significance of kindness in our interactions. Maintaining gentleness fosters understanding and harmony in relationships.
• Arnold Akalez
‘Yes, I communicate with gentleness, the Bible teaches us to be kind and gentle’
Yes, I communicate with gentleness because the Bible teaches us to be kind and gentle. Proverbs 15:1 says, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Also, Ephesians 4:2 reminds us, “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”
• Ogoke Chimamanda Anthonia
‘Gentleness does not imply weakness or timidity; rather, it signifies strength under control’
Yes, I communicate with gentleness! Communicating gently involves being kind, considerate, and patient with others. It also means being mindful of the words you use, and actively listening to others. Gentleness does not imply weakness or timidity; rather, it signifies strength under control. When we communicate with gentleness, we convey respect, humility, and a genuine concern for the feelings of others. It allows us to navigate conflicts with grace and resolve differences with compassion. Proverbs 15:1: A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
• Mary Peace Oche
‘When I talk to my friends or family, I try to remember to be patient and listen to them’
Yes, I believe I communicate with gentleness. The Bible teaches us the importance of being gentle in our words and actions. In Philippians 4:5, it says, “Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.” This reminds me that being gentle is not just about being soft-spoken, but also about showing kindness and understanding to others. When I talk to my friends or family, I try to remember to be patient and listen to them. In Proverbs 15:1, it states, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” This means that if I respond gently, I can help calm situations instead of making them worse. I also think about how Jesus showed gentleness. In Matthew 11:29, He says, “Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart.” If Jesus, who is so powerful, can be gentle, then I can strive to be like Him in my everyday life. So, I aim to communicate with gentleness because I want to reflect God’s love and kindness to everyone around me.
• Blossom Akalezi
‘By communicating with gentleness, we promote a culture of respect, empathy and understanding’
As Christians, we’re called to communicate with gentleness (Ephesians 4:29-32, Colossians 4:6). Let’s speak truth with love, kindness, and compassion. “A gentle tongue can break a bone” (Proverbs 25:15). May our words bring healing, encouragement, and build others up (1 Thessalonians 5:11). By communicating with gentleness, we reflect Christ’s heart and promote a culture of respect, empathy, and understanding.
• Agbo Josephine
‘I communicate with gentleness by using words that are kind and beneficial rather than harmful’
Yes, I can definitely communicate with gentleness by offering comfort, encouragement, and wisdom, uplift and offer peace in challenging moments to others, using words that are kind and beneficial rather than harmful. It reflects a gentle approach to communication in a manner that is thoughtful and considerate of the listener’s needs. Proverbs 15:1:”A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (NIV). Use a gentle tone and stay calm. Speak in a mutual respectful tone without blame. Acknowledge first, explain later. Acknowledge the significance of other’s perspective first, then provide feedback to demonstrate your understanding, and after that, calmly express your perspective. (2 Corinthians 10:1).
• Jomiloju Olota.
